od Miro » čtv 25. lis, 2004 15:49
Ten link je dobry, bohuzial osobne mozem skonstatovat iba to iste, co vyjadril Marek Chlibek, ze v podstate jedina moznost obrany proti znasilneniu je prevencia - a ze ked utocnik je uz rozhodnuty znasilnit ci sa pusti do znasilnenia, vtedy uz tomu zena nezabrani, jedine, co jej zostava, je kricat a kricat, alebo (ak vidi, ze ma aspon minimalnu sancu) to skusit uhrat tak, ze utocnikovi ponukne oralny sex.
Dva priklady z praxe:
1. "The Lady who was Defense-trained"
...was a lawyer in a major Canadian city who had self defense/martial arts
training. She was found beaten to death in the elevator of the parking
garage of her apartment building. The case was unsolved until some years
later when a fellow who was imprisoned for life with regards to another case
confessed to the murder. Turns out she'd taken the elevator up from the 3rd
level in the underground parking-garage. He was stoned on liquor and drugs
and blundered onto the elevator at a higher floor. She took one look at him,
assumed the worst, and took a "defensive stance". The prospect of violence
turned his crank, he lost it and attacked her. Her death was the result. He
said that it was simply a case of getting excited when she offered him the
prospect of violence.
(Pre tych, co nevedia anglicky: zena, ktora absolvovala trening sebaobrany, sla vytahom, pristupil nejaky ozraty a nadrogovany chlap, ona ocakavala najhorsie, tak zaujala obranny bojovy postoj, to utocnika vydrazdilo a zabil ju - podla jeho vlastnych slov, ked ho chytili: zabil ju, pretoze mu ponukla sancu na nasilie - tym obrannym postojom.)
2. "The Lady who was not Defense-trained"
...was a secretary who was assaulted in her town-house one night by a
teen-aged psychopath who spent three hours beating and raping her. She did
not resist. When he told her to close her eyes, she did - and he cut her
throat and slashed her wrists. He then left and she was able to crawl to the
neighbour's door and get attention. Her aorta was nicked but, after
transfusions and surgery she lived. Just lucky.
(Zenu napadol v jej dome mladicky psychopat. Tri hodiny ju bil a znasilnoval, ona sa znasilneniu nebranila v snahe, aby ju nezabil. Napokon jej povedal, aby zavrela oci, ona tak urobila a on jej podrezal hrdlo a zily na zapastiach. Nechal ju tak a odisiel, zrejme si myslel, ze uz je po nej, avsak ona bola schopna sa doplazit k susedom a napokon prezila - s neskutocnym stastim.)
Ani zeny, ktore maju solidny trening, by sa nemali spoliehat na to, ze v pripade nebezpecenstva si poradia (a uz obzvlast nie tym tradicnym kopom medzi nohy) - skutocne jedinou ochranou je prevencia, nebyt vsade tam, kde sa to moze stat. Pretoze aktivita aj pasivita niekedy mozu pomoct, ale niekedy nie. Bohuzial.
Avsak: vacsina znasilneni nie je sposobena neznamymi, ale tymi, ktorych zena osobne pozna, ktori patria do okruhu jej znamych... Ako zabranit takym pripadom? Tu je tazka rada - zenska by mala mat intuiciu, kto patri do kruhu "potencialne nebezpecnych osob" ci "potencialne nebezpecnych miest, situacii" atd. A samozrejme, zeny by sa mali snazit prisposobit danym ludom, miestam a situaciam - prinajmensom v snahe neprovokovat vyzyvavostou v obleceni a spravani...
Miro